30-year-old gets petty revenge on 33-year-old sister-in-law: 'Mom says you're 30 now and that's OLD!'

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Remy Millisky • Writer and Editor
Jul 12, 2025 3:00 PM EDT

Is turning 30 a big deal? It depends who you ask, because for some people, it's totally life-changing. The big milestone makes them reevaluate their whole life, asking life's important questions, like "Can I ever afford to live without 3 roommates?" and "Should I adopt a dog, or is that too much responsibility?" At this age, some people are settling down and getting married, ready to have a white picket fence and 2.5 kids. Others of us are watching movies and goofing around, with no plans of maturing in sight. 

In the grand scheme of things, 30 isn't exactly old. Sure, your 20s are over. But you're probably still physically fit, maybe you have a career going steadily, and you probably know a lot more about what your ultimate life goals are. However, this person dislikes her brother's wife — they never get along — and the wife is really projecting her own fears about aging onto the birthday girl. The sister-in-law told her 4-year-old to deliver a message to this person as she celebrated her 30th. She seems totally unpleasant to be around, and hopefully, by the time this person has their 35th or 40th birthday parties, they'll be surrounded by loved ones who are much happier to celebrate another year with them. 

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    Let's start with the fact that my brother's wife and I do not get along. Never have, never will. It's mutual - both fault and feelings. Also, she is very sensitive about her age. What she failed to realise is that I'm not.
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    Skip to my 30th birthday & my mom throws a party, including my brother & his family. They have 4 kids - 5, 4 and 1 year old twins at the time. The kids are playing, we're eating cake, everyone is getting along, and the wife calls
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    over the 4 year to whisper something in his ear. Immediately the kid comes to me and (in typical 4 year old fashion) yells "Auntie, guess what?!" What, kiddo? "Mom says you're 30 now and that's OLD!"
    via u/MusketeersPlus2
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    My face lit up. I delightedly answered "Yes, I am! And do you know who's a whole THREE YEARS older than me?" *wide eyes, shaking his head* "Your MOM!". Everyone except her had a good laugh.
    via u/MusketeersPlus2
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    She's really projecting

    spaceyjaycey She's older than you and sends her kid to make fun of your age and doesn't realize that is going to backfire on her? She's not the brightest bulb, is she?
    via u/spaceyjaycey
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    Ok_Astronomer_1... Love it, I'm now hoping the kid starts believing and saying that his mum is a lot older than she is. Kids can be brutal without parents. encouraging it, my kids. actually say I'm 100
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    What_if_I_fly What a petty j, teaching her kid to be nasty and disrespectful. She'll reap what she is sowing in parenting.
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    MaximumEnviron... This is weird. Your SIL has a weird complex, especially only being in her early 30s. Nice work though
    via u/MaximumEnvironment43
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    CoderJoe1 Respect your elders/s
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  • 12

    Got her!

    PersnicketySnek Hahaha, countering that petty set-up with a 'yo mama' joke is the best thing I've read all day :'D
    via u/PersnicketySnek
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    RJack151 Don't start nothing that you can't finish.
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